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Cultivating Cocreative Relationships

Evolve beyond disconnective, codependent emotional patterns using a simple system for change

A 90-day program that leads you every step of the way

Repeating the same patterns

I really want to be in a healthy relationship but I keep attracting the wrong people. I hate feeling needy, but I just don’t know what to do about it. I often don’t say what I really feel and sacrifice my needs for others.

Feeling distant from your partner

No matter how much I try to make her happy, she doesn't seem to respond. I miss the affection. We constantly bicker, and I feel so lonely and isolated that I feel like giving up.

Program of Weekly Topics

The program is split into 3 streams across the 13-weeks. A new teaching is introduced each week accompanied by the tools and strategies you need to be able to apply your learnings to your real-life situation. 

Stream 1 - Know it
Develop awareness of disconnective behaviours

  1. Flipping relationship culture right way up
  2. The Unseen Currency (the real cost of codependency) 
  3. An Introduction to Emotion Mapping (Emotion Mapping 1) 
  4. Looking in the right place for your solutions (Emotion Mapping 2) 
  5. Reclaiming your Internal Power 
  6. Resolution in the new paradigm

Stream 2 - Live it
Integrate new behaviours in your every day life

  1. The Conscious Evolution (Acting from new foundations) 
  2. Breaking chains of codependency for good 
  3. Emotional Freedom in practice – co-creative action 
  4. Confrontation, conflict and codependency – dealing with the aftermath

Stream 3 - Protect it
Prevent obstacles to ongoing connection

  1. Attracting & creating ‘right’ relationships – partners, friends & work 
  2. Living your FULL value – a new system for living 
  3. Emotional Flow

What's in the box?

One audio teaching per week incl. meditations, notes, and activities

~20 mins each

Regular check-ins from Lisa via the Whatsapp group including 'live' support  

Within 4 hours during 9-5pm

Monthly live sessions with group meditation and coaching via Zoom*

1 hour

Initial live session to start the program and meet your supportive community

1 hour

*Groups will be moderated and structured by Lisa to create a safe and supportive environment.

Working with Lisa

It works, it gets in. It's like a knife that cuts through all the layers. It's straight forward and it's fast – you don’t have to be going through years of psychotherapy. It's Lisa's passion and love that shines through. I feel more in control of my thoughts. I can definitely see the difference between what I think and what I do and what happens, I feel more at ease, calmer. The content is straight forward, there’s no airy fairy. It's so practical, very practical and it’s a guide for day to day living and taking your power back. It gives you insights and how you can make more sense of life and getting the most you can out of life.
J Powell
J PowellTeacher
Lisa doesn’t take the power from the person, she gives the power. We have that power and need to see it within ourselves. I feel like I can see things more clearly. Some experts tell us what to do and we are hooked onto them and feel like we can’t do it by ourselves. But with Lisa, I know I can do it on my own. It’s simple and I can follow easy. Lisa’s examples make it very palatable. Her passion for work makes me want to do it for myself. It’s empowering and light like a breath of fresh air.
Samiksha Tungare
Samiksha TungareBusiness Administration​
When reviewing Lisa's online presence, it is evident she is both passionate and highly successful in assisting women and mothers of teenage girls. As a 63-year-old male I am neither of these, however after engaging Lisa several months ago, my emotional awareness has been transformed, as has my capacity to be a better partner, parent, colleague and friend. Lisa's friendly, intuitive process has allowed me to identify the root causes of these patterns and enabled me to learn skills to address them when they arise. This has had a profound freeing effect for me. In short, I think Lisa is brilliant!
Andrew G
Andrew GCorporate Leader
For years I was walking on eggshells, not speaking my truth, not setting up personal boundaries, people pleasing and continually feeling exhausted, unhappy and disempowered. The 5 keys that Lisa teaches are easy to understand and apply – she has such a unique and fresh approach to freeing ourselves from these patterns of behaviour. Lisa made me feel like she was walking beside me from the way she shared her personal experiences so honestly and in such a relatable way.
Julie Bourke
Julie BourkeBusiness Owner
Lisa Jayne understands the parenting experience from the inside and provides caring, practical and effective ways to optimise mother daughter relationships. Amidst the pressures of puberty and the challenges of the world, Lisa teaches mothers how to remain an emotionally safe harbour for their daughters.
Jacki Short
Jacki ShortDirector Principal Psychologist & Play Therapist, Sydney Centre for Creative Change
For some reason, after I applied all this stuff, it seemed to make things better. I didn’t need to fix anything. I didn’t need to be angry anymore.
Meredith P
Meredith PNurse
Rather than feeling unsure of myself, which made me feel powerless and dependent on how other people felt about me, now I feel empowered wherever I go and that makes such a huge difference. Those repetitive cycles ... they're all gone.
Claire K.
Claire K.Business Owner​
I’m 25 year old and was feeling very terrible about myself. I felt like I wasn’t myself, didn’t know myself and I was just going down a blackhole with no way out of it. A friend of mine introduced me to Lisa. I am so grateful to have taken the decision to work with her, already after 4 sessions I could feel a major change in how I interact with challenges that come my way. She helped me be more aware of my own thoughts, emotions and feelings and how to consciously interact with them with a helpful tips I use in my every day life. The best part is that she helped me realize how beautiful the relationship with myself can be - accepting who I am instead of trying to work against my own mind and thoughts. The work that I’ve done with Lisa is life changing and opened a whole new world to me.
Matt
MattHospitality
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What you'll learn

Enjoy a supportive environment while developing inner resources for relationships that feel easy and naturally flow towards mutual empowerment,  deep connection and loving support.  

This program aims to teach you how to: 

Diffuse emotional reaction and flip into co-creation

Learn a system for creating relationships that are mutually empowering

Map and resolve the root cause of your 'emotional' behaviour

Deliberately and effectively deal with conflict

Attract lasting, quality relationships that add joy and ease to your life

Dissolve emotional residual from the past so it stops impacting your present

FAQs

What is Codependency?
Codependency is an umbrella term that describes behaviours we take to ensure our emotional needs are met by other people, places and things. It is a conditioned way of being in relationship and because it requires us to seek what we need externally, we disconnect more and more from ourselves. Ironically, the behaviours we have learnt to try to get what we want, actually push those things away in the long term. Codependency includes, but is not limited to: “don’t poke the bear”, walking on eggshells, telling half truths, minimising situations to avoid conflict, people pleasing, “poor me, I have to do everything”, being responsible for how others feel and accepting unacceptable behaviour.

What are disconnective behaviours?
All behaviours that feed codependency within the self and with others. For example, say I feel not good enough, rather than tending to that feeling, I disconnect from myself (because it feels uncomfortable) and attempt to feel ok about myself via others. For example, I say yes, when I want to say No, so they think I’m a great person and I feel a sense of worth. The problem with this is, I have not been true to myself (I have disconnected from me) which may make me feel resentful. My resentment then gets in the way of the connection I have with the other person. I cannot be truly present due to the nature of this interaction.  No one feels connected. 

This is really personal stuff, and really scary to look at let alone share with others!
There’s no obligation to undertake the program. If you are content with where you’re at then that’s all that’s important right now, so stay there. However, if you really want to change, my promise to you is that you will have a loving, caring and safe space to grow and free yourself from what you are ready to let go of. I will never force you to share and all personal and group interactions will be structured and respectful. 

This is a practical program and focuses on your unique challenges with the aim of changing your system of living. How much you want 2023 to be the year you broke the chains that have held you back will determine your level of commitment!

Starting
6 Feb

90-day program

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About Lisa

After raising 4 kids, teaching primary and high school aged children and overcoming her own relationship challenges, Lisa has come to see that the way society teaches us to be in relationships is upside down. Rather than creating feelings of deepening connection over time, emotional tension often leads to disconnective behaviors, conflict and resentment. This lack of emotional education is the source of many social problems, including lower levels of personal productivity in the workplace and increases in traumatic relationship breakdown.

Lisa has worked with over a thousand clients: men, women, mothers, fathers, singles and couples. She has guided people both individually and in groups to overcome patterns of relationship that no longer serve and foster new levels of connection for exquisite personal satisfaction. Lisa has helped single men and women understand the way to attract the right partner and build the foundations for co-creative relationships that feel more loving and connected over time. She has supported hundreds of mothers to create cohesive relationships with their daughters and feel closer during the teen years.  

Lisa’s lighthearted presence and ‘hands-on’ approach has her clients feeling empowered, inspired and very clear on how to walk a new path, true to themselves, that naturally leads to their greatest potential. 

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